Providing you guidance and support from the final good-bye, through ceremonies, cremations, and burials, we’re passionate about helping you achieve the perfect ceremonial farewell on your budget.
David Stumpff
David Stumpff
Funeral Director
David began his career in funeral service in Bartlesville at his father’s Stumpff Funeral Home & Crematory at the age 14. An alumnus of Bartlesville High School, University of Oklahoma, and Dallas Institute of Funeral Service, David made his home in Tulsa to continue providing Oklahoma Funeral Care as a colleague of Charles L. Butler in the Spring of 1987.
David’s licenses and specialties include Oklahoma Funeral Director; Embalmer; Certified Crematory Operator, Cemetery Management; and Oklahoma and Texas Life Insurance Agent specializing in pre-planning final wishes and burial insurance.
David serves as C.F.O. on the Board of Directors of American Century Life Insurance Company, Oklahoma, and is President of The Stumpff Corporation. d.b.a. Stumpff Funeral Homes, crematories and cemetery.
“Every life has value and deserves to be celebrated with honor, dignity, and respect. I love what I do.”
Alysha Minniear
Alysha Minniear
Funeral Director
The difference is in the details. I’ve made it my passion to create perfect, lasting tributes for families through curated colors, custom tribute cards, and thoughtful fabric choices. My goal is to craft a send-off as unique as the life it honors, handling every logistical concern so you can focus on what matters most: remembering your loved one.
Kristine Adams
Kristine Adams
Cremation Coordinator | Licensed Director
Simple and Smart our Worry-free Cremation Plans provide you an economical alternative to expensive, high-pressure funeral homes and mortuaries. Specializing exclusively in cremation, I’ll provide you easy step-by-step guidance through the cremation coordination details.
Sharon R. Dyer
Sharon R. Dyer
Funeral Consultant
Sharon R. Dyer – Funeral & Preneed Consultant
Licensed Life Insurance Agent
Dyer Memorial Chapel – Preneed Counselor
Mrs. Dyer and her family joined together with Butler-Stumpff the summer of 2017 to form a more dynamic and stronger future for their clients and friends and her family. Today Mrs. Dyer along with her Sons, and some Grand-children are now together as Butler-Stumpff & Dyer. A long standing tradition of families joining together The Butler’s, Stumpff and Dyer Families.
Bryson Rizzo
Bryson Rizzo
Cremation Specialist
Bryson Rizzo grew up in Broken Arrow, OK, and moved to Bartlesville in 2016. Bryson and his family live at Camp Wah Shah She, where he enjoys tending to the campgrounds. He is planning on attending flight school to become a charter pilot in the near future. He is passionate about volunteer work and serving families at Stumpff Funeral Home and Crematory.
Gary Carter
Gary Carter
Licensed Insurance Agent
Gary D. Carter, licensed Insurance Agent and assistant to the funeral director, was born in Muskogee, Oklahoma. He graduated from Muskogee High School in 1975 and went on to receive an Associate’s Degree from Conners State College in Warner, Oklahoma. Gary has one daughter, two grandchildren and one great grandchild. He is a Deacon and Chairman of the Usher Board at Greater Cornerstone Baptist Church.
Gary has been in funeral service since 1971 and has been a dedicated part of the Dyer family since 1999. He has made a new home for himself at Butler-Stumpff & Dyer where he will continue to serve the community and help our new partnership become a true success.
Damon Earvin
Damon Earvin
Funeral Attendant
Meet Damon Ervin, a Sapulpa native who has been sharing his vocal gift with our families since 2014. Damon specializes in creating ‘tributes through song,’ ensuring that every musical selection serves as a beautiful, lasting memory. Whether he is performing ‘I Won’t Complain’ or a custom request, Damon’s mission is to help families find comfort through a perfectly curated musical send-off.
Sam Dyer
Sam Dyer
Funeral Assistant Coordinator
U.S. Marine Corps Veteran
Samuel L. Dyer was born and raised in Tulsa Oklahoma and is a graduate of Booker T. Washington High School. Sam Served in the United States Marine Corps for 13 years and is active with the American Legion in Tulsa.
Sam was introduced into funeral service at a very young age working with his family at Dyer Memorial Chapel a family owned and operated Tulsa Funeral Home. Sam currently serves as a Senior Funeral Assistant to the directors at Butler-Stumpff & Dyer Memorial Chapel, Funeral Home, Crematory and Cemetery.
Lawrence Dyer
Lawrence Dyer
Catering & Funeral Assistant
Jamaal Nash-Dyer
Jamaal Nash-Dyer
Vocalist & Musician
Associate Pastor, Metropolitan Baptist Church
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Jamaal Nash-Dyer is a Tulsa native and Booker T. Washington High School graduate. He earned a Bachelor of Science in Mass Communication with emphasis in Broadcast Journalism from the University of Arkansas Pine Bluff. He later obtained a Master’s of Science in Rehabilitation Counseling from Langston University and is currently a Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate at Family and Youth Intervention Services.
Jamaal is actively involved in many civic, religious and professional organizations. He currently serves as a board member for the Booker T. Washington High School Foundation for Excellence and Tulsa Legacy Charter Schools. Jamaal is also a member of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, Inc
Keith Silmon
Keith Silmon
Musician